Well This Is How It Is....

well me and my girl Olivia are having some troubles, because of this guy name Jeff, Who is an Asshole alright. he knows that Olivia loves me and is with me, yet he is constantly trying to get with her, by doing an absolute bad job yet good job at it. Jeff is always trying to kiss her, and date her again because he trys to show he cares but it doesnt seem to be working for him. I'm still afraid i might lose olivia to him because they did date a few weeks ago, but she broke up cause he kept calling her a cunt, and bitch, and all that, and was being a womanizer.

well yesterday i was told i am no longer allowed at Olivia's house because her mom found out me and her fucked, she usually doesnt care but it was because we didnt tell her we were. and now im worried that because jeff can go over there, she will allow jeff to stay the night and something might happen. ive tried talkin to olivia bout it but she wont say anything, what should i do?

if she gets with jeff i think(my opinion) that she didnt rly loved you(sry if it gets you mad lol) but hey he seems like a true asshole like you said before, you should wait that the things get a bit more normal i think

Well actually i think she still loves him, she just with Jeff to make andrew jealous or something or just to get over him. But Jeff does sound like an asshole to me , no one should ever call a girl a bitch or cunt unless they got a reason. That is shitty that you dont get to go to her house, but Jeff can like wtf. but dont worry Olivia wont do anything well i believe that she wont

Hey Yuuto,

With the most experience here no offence everyone

Does Olivia and this kid talk alot and hang out? If they do then you have to get her to spend time with you and YOU have to make her tell you what the deal is. If she truely loves you she will talk to you and tell you whats going on.

Why would this kid be staying at her house?? That is kinda weird...

here is exactly what I would do. I would get information about her and this guy out of Olivia. If she still chills with this guy then ask her not to hang out or talk to him again. If she still wants to talk to him or hang out with him then I hate to say it but dump her ass... If she doesn't make sacrifices for you then she doesn't love you... She might say she loves just to keep you hooked in but thats because she needs someone to fall back on (if you know what I mean).

Ultimately, you need to tell your girlfriend to tell you the truth and no secrets between either of you. If she truely loves you and not just saying it, she will do this for you. But you should still get someone close to her that you know to keep an eye on her.

P.S. my girlfriend's name is Olivia too

sorry for double posting but I forgot to tell you something and I don't feel like editing...

did she tell you that this guy is trying to kiss her and stuff or did someone else tell you this? Also, does she party without you there??

deadly wrote:Hey Yuuto,

With the most experience here no offence everyone

Does Olivia and this kid talk alot and hang out? If they do then you have to get her to spend time with you and YOU have to make her tell you what the deal is. If she truely loves you she will talk to you and tell you whats going on.

Why would this kid be staying at her house?? That is kinda weird...

here is exactly what I would do. I would get information about her and this guy out of Olivia. If she still chills with this guy then ask her not to hang out or talk to him again. If she still wants to talk to him or hang out with him then I hate to say it but dump her ass... If she doesn't make sacrifices for you then she doesn't love you... She might say she loves just to keep you hooked in but thats because she needs someone to fall back on (if you know what I mean).

Ultimately, you need to tell your girlfriend to tell you the truth and no secrets between either of you. If she truely loves you and not just saying it, she will do this for you. But you should still get someone close to her that you know to keep an eye on her.

P.S. my girlfriend's name is Olivia too

deadly wrote:sorry for double posting but I forgot to tell you something and I don't feel like editing...

did she tell you that this guy is trying to kiss her and stuff or did someone else tell you this? Also, does she party without you there??

she told me that he was trying to, and i know she loves me just because of the stuff she does for me

in that case, tell her to tell the guy to leave her alone if she loves you bro. I would suggest kicking the shit out of him if I were you but I don't know you in person so I don't know if you can fight... but just tell her to tell this guy to basically **** off...

violence doesnt lead to anything

So Olivia has completely stopped talking to me basically she might talk to me once in a while in school but thats about it, she doesnt call, and i cant call her house cause her mom hates me and jeff is usually there so she doesnt want to talk to me

I know you like her, but to me it sounds like something is going on. I hate to hurt ya, but it comes down to listening to your gut and whether or not you trust her.

My advice, WHIP HIS ASS!!!